“Abortions will not let you forget. You remember the children you got that you did not get,” * I encountered Gwendolyn Brooks’ poem “the mother” recently on Poetry Foundation’s website. Isn’t it true that abortion reminders are always lurking, appearing in the moments when…
Taking that first step into getting help after experiencing an abortion can be very daunting. But, for those who do, it can make the difference between darkness and finding hope. A previous Restore client explains her life of post abortion darkness before Restore and…
Women who contact Restore often ask, “I feel so uncomfortable when the topic of abortion is discussed. What can I do?” You’re at a party with friends and the subject of abortion comes up. At the dinner table with family someone mentions a story…
Everyone goes through denial at some point. In the short term, it allows people to get some psychological distance from traumatic news or experiences. Mayo Clinic warns, however, that when denial sticks around it may prevent people from getting the help they need. Since…
Abortion is a very private decision. Many women only discuss their decision with the people who are closest to them. Sometimes, women find that those close relationships become strained after the abortion. Boyfriend or husband You thought maybe your relationship would get better. You…
Holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and other yearly celebrations are meant to be happy occasions to look forward to. We mark them on our calendars and get excited as the dates come closer. However, for those with past abortions, holidays and celebrations might be a struggle.…
That wasn’t so bad, you thought. Walked in, walked out. This was what you wanted. It had to be done. Nobody was hurt, you can move on with your life. You feel relieved and guilt free. Or do you? Perhaps you didn’t think too…
We’ve talked about how to tell him. We’ve talked about when to do it. But why? Why is it important for your boyfriend to know? What’s wrong with keeping it a secret? Since he wasn’t involved, why does it matter? (Let’s assume if you’re considering this question–especially if you’ve read…
Deciding to tell your significant other about a past abortion(s) can be very difficult. Once you’ve chosen to have that conversation, making it happen can be just as challenging. Here are 6 steps: 1. Pick A Time: Inform your partner ahead of time that you want to discuss something important.…
You’ve been seeing a great guy, and he asks you on a nice dinner date downtown. Everything seems to be going well, and you really want to continue seeing him. Maybe even become serious. Yet at the dinner table, he starts to ask questions. “What have your previous relationships been…