Undergoing an abortion is a big thing. There is a period of physical recovery that you have probably received information and instructions about from your provider. In additional to the physical effects, however, it is not unusual to experience emotional or psychological side effects. You may or may not have…
This isn’t just a song title, it’s a truth about life. The band Faces knew what they were singing about when they included this song on their 1973 album Ooh La La. A life crisis can lead to quick decisions—and sometimes that leads to regret. At the time of the…
Often, I hear women say they are afraid to start a post abortion recovery program because they are too fearful to discuss their abortions with other people. They mention they are afraid that once they start talking about their abortions, they will not be able to handle the deep emotions…
Studies show that nearly 18% of women who experience abortion will become pregnant again within the next year—so if you are thinking about becoming pregnant after abortion, you are not alone. An abortion can be a life-changing experience for those who experience it. Although not for all, for some women…
An abortion happens once, but often continues to influence the lives of all who have been touched by it. A woman who has undergone an abortion may experience grief, anger, sadness or many other emotions, either singly or in some combination. That alone will affect her and her relationships with…
This past week, as I was rummaging through some old family heirlooms given to me by my father, I came across a large wooden chest belonging to my late grandfather. By the looks of the solid layer of dust, it clearly had not been touched in probably decades. Its intricate…
Today we welcome this guest blog post from pregnanthelp.com. For over 35 years, PregnantHelp has compassionately served Chicagoland women who are facing unintended pregnancies. “I’ve had an abortion…. well, a few abortions….” Eye contact broke off and the woman’s voice lowered as she shared this…
Much attention is focused on the impact an abortion has on a woman. Yet whenever there is a pregnancy, there is a man involved. Yes, there are cases where the man is not even made aware of the fact that a pregnancy has occurred. There are certainly men who want…
We are so glad to have launched our newest women’s post abortion support group. What happens in these groups is truly amazing: the sharing of stories, the bonding experience, the feeling of true support, and the healing that occurs. We are confident these ladies will experience the support and healing…
Grief. It can hit without warning and cause devastation in its wake. And, unfortunately, the struggle through the stages of grief can be a long and complicated journey. Recently, I reflected on many of the women’s stories that I have heard on grief after abortion. Many explain the struggle is…