Healing from an abortion experience is a process, as feelings of recuperation will not come all at once, but rather, they must be allowed in gradually. The journey towards restoring yourself may be difficult if you find yourself dwelling upon negative emotions, but what has happened to you is not…
An abortion experience can lead to a woman having complicated feelings about the procedure she underwent. Processing these emotions can be quite a journey, as there can be a lot of ups and downs, and the path to recovery may be hindered by feelings of grief. The steps taken towards…
Chances are, if you have a teenage daughter, you may have already heard about one of her friends experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and an abortion. But, what can you do to help your daughter and her friend cope with this situation? Common Emotions After Abortion If you haven’t experienced, firsthand,…
Watching someone we love suffer is heart-wrenching, especially when we know we want to help them, but we do not know how. When a loved one undergoes an abortion experience, she may feel pain and isolation, and she may rebuff attempts to talk about it in an attempt to avoid…
Reflection Reflecting on a difficult experience can be a stressful time as we find ourselves admitting something might have happened to us to bring about discouraging feelings. For a post-abortive woman, she may find herself struggling with feelings of loss after the initial relief she felt towards her abortion fades…
Discouraged Over the past five years, Sara was Jane’s closest friend and always told her everything. After Jane found out she was pregnant, Sara was the one who was there for her. She drove her to the clinic, sat with her through the options counseling, and talked with her about…
Why Women Seek Group Support Many women want to join Restore After Abortion groups because they feel alone and are unable to process through all of the difficult emotions they are experiencing. Typically, they are seeking to get connected to a group where they can talk openly to others, share…
It may seem strange that the word grief is used when someone talks about the emotional pain after experiencing an abortion. This may be due, in part, to grief usually being synonymous with mourning the death of a loved one. According to Dr. William Shiel, the medical definition of grief…
Starting a new relationship with someone can be both exciting and scary. You may feel excited that he seems to be the perfect match for you, due to your similar interests. Also, though, you may be feeling fearful to disclose certain aspects of your past, especially ones that may cause…
Have you had a secret in your past that, at some point, you decided to tell someone about it? Did they respond in a way that you expected they would or did their response surprise you? In today’s journal entry, the writer explains how she finally told her parents about…