“Second-Guessing an Abortion I Had as a Teen”

Discovering an unexpected pregnancy can feel devastating at any age. But, teens who find themselves in this position can face unique obstacles.  Maybe you had an unexpected pregnancy that led to an abortion during this season of your life.  Chances are, you still had a lot to figure out at the time (as do we all!).  Your personal resources and experiences were probably extra-limited back then.  You were likely focused on school, work, relationships, dreams for the future, and just finding your place in the world.  Discovering an unexpected pregnancy during this critical, formative season can feel shocking and horribly unfair.

It’s probably safe to say that you had an abortion because you were scared for the future and believed this was your best option.  But what if this part of your past still feels unresolved in your heart and mind?  Maybe you feel that you made the best possible decision under difficult circumstances, but you still find yourself pondering and questioning this part of your past.  You might occasionally wonder, “What would my life look like now if I’d chosen differently?”  Perhaps feelings of grief and regret over your past abortion have grown so intense that they’re impacting your day-to-day life.  Maybe you fall somewhere in-between.  Or, maybe you would say that you feel good about your decision and haven’t looked back since.  Just know that, if any part of you is still wrestling with this piece of your past, Restore is here for you.

At Restore, we understand that each person’s post-abortion emotional recovery process is unique.  Feelings about this decision can vary significantly between individuals and change in the life of one person over time.  Sometimes, post-abortion stress surfaces immediately after the pregnancy comes to an end.  Other times, it’s triggered many years later.  No matter what twists and turns your own story has taken, if you’re wrestling with difficult questions surrounding an abortion in your past, Restore can help.  We’re a free program that’s been offering life-changing support to individuals facing circumstances like yours for over 20 years. 

Learn more about Restore and schedule a consultation today!  Our mission is to help women and men discover healing that lasts through one-on-one or group support.