In the wake of an abortion experience, are you realizing that you made this decision for your partner instead of yourself? Maybe he mentioned that he wanted an abortion, and you wanted him to have the outcome he desired. Or, perhaps his approach was more threatening. Maybe he said he’d…
Fall is a much-loved season here in the Midwest. For me, the word “autumn” brings up cheerful mental images of blazing campfires, cozy blankets, and hot, spiced drinks. But it’s hard to enjoy fall colors, flavors, and activities when you have a difficult past experience on your mind. Maybe you…
Are you thinking about disclosing a past abortion to someone you’re close to? Sharing this information can be painful, especially if you’re wrestling with regrets or conflicted emotions. However, perhaps you believe that “going there” with a specific loved one could be the right move for you, despite the risks. …
Does it feel like your parents are disappointed with your decision to have an abortion? Maybe you’re a young person who’s trying to get back on track with school or other responsibilities while navigating life after an abortion. Or, maybe you’re going through this as an adult. (After all, parents…
It’s summer! …which means college students everywhere are looking for some much-needed rest and relaxation. Maybe you’re one of them. This season is most likely one that you’ve been looking forward to for a while. It probably feels like a relief to step away from your studies and bask in…
This summer, does it feel like everyone’s having a great time except you? Chances are, you’ve already seen numerous photos of your friends’ weekend adventures on social media, and heard all about your family members’ vacations. But maybe your energy (or lack thereof) doesn’t match their high spirits. Maybe your…
Have you been wrestling with complex emotions surrounding a hard abortion experience from the time when you made this decision? Maybe the six-month or one-year anniversary is coming up. Perhaps the abortion happened decades ago, but some of the anniversaries have been difficult, and you think this next one might…
People respond to abortions in so many different ways. Maybe you expected your mood to remain relatively normal after taking this step. Perhaps you anticipated feeling sad or upset. But what if, instead, you’re going through a period of emotional detachment after a difficult abortion experience? An individual’s reaction to…
Spring has officially arrived, bringing milder temperatures and more hours of daylight. By and large, this probably comes as a relief! But have you ever noticed how springtime tends to trigger a change in the social climate as well as the weather? When conditions become warmer and sunnier, most people…
After an abortion, many individuals struggle with chronic post-abortion stress: the inability to process difficult feelings about an unexpected pregnancy and subsequent abortion. This occurs more commonly than most people realize. One of the more prevalent symptoms of post-abortion stress is a lingering sense of guilt or shame. Among those…