A client of Restore recently made a comment in her post-evaluation that struck me as true: “…the aftermath (of abortion) is just not talked about enough.” Certainly, every person’s reaction to abortion is unique. Some report feeling no significant shift in their emotional health shortly after the procedure or years later. However, many individuals do struggle with post-abortion stress. There’s no denying it. If you’re reading this blog, chances are, you would count yourself among them. No matter what you may have been told about the emotional after-effects of abortion (if you were told anything at all), there’s nothing “odd” or “unusual” about this. It’s simply not talked about enough, as our Restore client so astutely pointed out.
Each clinic and medical professional has a unique approach to discussing pregnancy options with unexpectedly pregnant individuals. Some provide accurate, comprehensive information with genuine concern for the patient’s well-being. However, educating people on the possible negative effects of abortion is generally not a priority for abortion providers. Abortion clinics don’t always take the time to help patients engage in a careful decision-making process or explore the potential mental/emotional impacts of their options. Maybe you were even told by a medical professional that you’d be able to move on quickly from your abortion experience.
Perhaps you’ve been feeling resentful that post-abortion stress was never presented to you as a possibility. This frustration may be directed toward the professionals who oversaw your care, loved ones who gave you misguided counsel, or even yourself. Maybe there’s a sense of sorrow too, and a feeling that the loss of your pregnancy is something you still need to grieve. Any of these reactions would be normal and natural. But only by acknowledging these painful emotions will you ever be able to make peace with them. Know that it is possible to cope well with post-abortion stress, and ultimately discover healing that lasts.
At Restore, we aim to help women do exactly that. We’re a post-abortion emotional recovery program that’s been effectively pursuing this mission for over 20 years! If you think you may be struggling with post-abortion stress, don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to answer your questions. Our services are completely free and confidential!
Contact us today! We offer a safe, calm, judgment-free space to pursue emotional healing from the wounds of your past.