The title of this blog which is a real quote from a Restore client, reflects a sentiment that’s shared by many individuals who’ve been hurt by a past abortion. Fear and shame are hallmarks of post-abortion stress. Sadly, nothing keeps us separated from community support like this toxic pair. Perhaps you can relate, like so many others. Maybe your fear of judgment or emotional pain is holding you back from the genuine care you truly need. If so, read on. This blog is for you!
It’s very common for people who are struggling with post-abortion stress to feel alone in their circumstances. They may believe that they’re “not supposed to” feel sad or regretful about their abortion(s), leading them to doubt that others may be wrestling with similar emotions. Those who are experiencing guilt may hide this part of their past and their feelings surrounding it because they’re afraid of being judged. Unpacking a painful subject like this would be daunting for anyone! It’s human nature to avoid pain and heartache. So, who wouldn’t feel intimidated at the thought of exploring their deepest emotions about a sensitive abortion experience? Let alone sharing those thoughts and feelings with somebody else?
Maybe the memories and emotions surrounding your abortion hurt so much that you don’t want to touch them with a ten-foot pole. That would be understandable. However, you may need to acknowledge and process this part of your past in order to discover true healing. When
“Anonymous” (the client who told us she “refused getting help… because of fear”) first reached out to Restore, she reported that she’d been struggling with sorrow, guilt, and low motivation. At the conclusion of the Restore program, she had this to say:
“I no longer walk around with a heavy ball of grief. I can love again and speak life into the world. I was truly lost before Restore, and now I feel like I am finding and rebuilding myself… Now I am better off than before, and I never thought this could happen. After Restore, my heart can smile again.”
“Anonymous” is living proof that seeking support in a safe, healing environment is worth it! She took an incredibly brave step in reaching out for help. And now, because of her courage and resilience, she’s experiencing a beautifully transformed life.
If you’re struggling with post-abortion stress, know that you’re not alone. Not only are thousands of individuals wrestling with similar circumstances. But there are places you can go to access caring, confidential, non-judgmental support. Restore is one of them! For over 20 years, we’ve been providing no-cost abortion recovery to individuals from the Chicagoland area and beyond. Our program includes sessions with our specially-trained leader(s) in a support setting of your choice.
Learn more about our services and reach out today! We offer virtual appointments!